tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272631002024-03-13T01:25:25.828-04:00Lew & LauraLaurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.comBlogger317125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-70388457270637713392016-07-25T10:22:00.000-04:002016-07-25T10:22:47.026-04:00SmudgiesOur MOST favorite summer (or anytime) treat are smudgies. They are easy and only have 4 ingredients. The best part is they can be whipped up in 5 minutes or less!<br />
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12-16 graham crackers broken in half to make a square (the amount depends on how full you like your smudgies to be)<br />
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Smash ripe bananas completely. Whisk in peanut butter until smooth. Lay out half of graham crackers on a cookie sheet. Using a spoon spread the banana mixture on the graham cracker halves. Use the remaining graham crackers as lids to make a sandwich. <br />
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They are so good, kind of taste like little ice cream sandwiches. I freeze them partially on a cookie sheet, and then wrap them in foil in the freezer. We like to let them sit out for about 5-10 minutes before eating so the inside gets soft. Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-35036458141503483222016-06-15T16:05:00.001-04:002016-06-15T16:05:20.239-04:00Book Review: A Woman of Strength and Purpose<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I just finished this book by <a href="http://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/authors/31179/cynthia-tobias/">Cynthia Ulrich Tobias</a>. She has authored several other books including: "You Can't Make Me", "The Way They Learn", "Every Child Can Succeed" among many others. She has become one of my favorite authors and speakers over the years as she shares a great deal about strong willed children. I always can relate because I was a strong willed child myself and now have strong willed children. This book couldn't have been more fitting as it speaks to the strong willed woman. I was so excited to read it and have a chance to review it! Let's dive in...<br />
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One of the very first things I noticed when I began reading was this book is easy to read. Trying to finish a book with 4 young kids can feel like a chore. This book was easy to start, stay engaged, and finish! I have been going back and rereading my favorite portions and have really enjoyed all of the tools and resources I gained from her writing. <br />
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The Second, and probably my favorite part of this entire book, is how she describes the strong willed women. This is NOT a book of "Don'ts". If you are a strong willed woman, don't you feel like all your life you have viewed your strong will in a negative way? I know for me I often felt like being strong willed was a bad trait and that life would be easier for me if I learned to become more quiet and submissive. I am not saying that we can't all learn to be more quiet and restrained, but I have never read such a great book on the positive qualities of being a strong willed woman (or a SWW as she writes it).<br />
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"When honoring God is our top priority, our greatest triumph is succeeding without cheating, dishonesty, or any other tactic that would dishonor Him. As we're called upon to find unique solutions to problem or creative angles for attempting the impossible, we are fully committed to staying within the boundaries of God's law and direction and using our strong will to change the world for good. One woman put it this way: "A strong will doesn't have to have negative consequences, especially if it keeps us following in the footsteps God wants us to follow. It might be a lifesaver"<span style="font-size: xx-small;"> (pages 4-5)</span><br />
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She really hones in on using your strong will for God's good purposes. This book really delves in to the "Do's" of being a SWW. I love hearing encouragement on how God can use your strong will for Good in His kingdom, after all didn't He give us our strong will? <br />
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Bringing God honor is something she also touches on a lot. She does share the things that can hinder us from doing God's will or serving in His kingdom as SWW. She also shares about when we give ourselves over to God's will and truly line up our lives with His will we can experience fruit and true purpose for our lives. I loved this quote as well:<br />
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"Our desire to conquer takes a back set to our desire to keep our life in line in His will and to bring Him honor." <span style="font-size: xx-small;">(page 76)</span><br />
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It's encouraging to see that we can still have the desire to conquer and triumph as SWW, but our first priority must always be bringing God honor and living in line with His will. In fact when we are walking in His will we can use those strengths to bring about His Kingdom purposes. <br />
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The third thing that is really neat about this book is it is filled with stories of other SWW. You aren't just hearing from Cynthia, but tons of SWW who have similar but different stories. It's neat to see things from different viewpoints and realize in the world of SWW there is so much diversity. No SWW is made the same. <br />
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One of my other favorite portions is the chapter on mentoring. I have a passion for mentoring and can see how beneficial it would be to have a SWW who may be ahead of you to pass down wisdom over the years. I have grown as a SWW and believer and am not the same woman today that I was 10, even 5 years ago! I think it's important that we make time for mentoring and being mentored. So much good can come from making time to connect with other women in different seasons. <br />
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There is a very nice question list in the back for each chapter. This would be perfect for a book club to get conversations started. <br />
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All in all I am so happy with this book, and glad I was able to glean from Cynthia's wisdom. You can find out more about the book and purchase it<a href="http://waterbrookmultnomah.com/books/535564/a-woman-of-strength-and-purpose-by-cynthia-ulrich-tobias/"> here. </a><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">I received this book from<a href="http://www.bloggingforbooks.com/"> blogging for books</a> My unbiased opinion of the book is all my own! </span><br />
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Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-50928320663169932772016-03-24T14:20:00.002-04:002016-03-24T14:20:11.392-04:00Days Gone<div style="text-align: center;">
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My Grandma turned 93 this year. She is a personal hero of mine. The past several months she has been enduring a very big health battle. She has been unable to eat and lost a lot of weight and a lot of independence. She has had many procedures to try to repair her esophagus, some have made the problems worse. It has been painful to watch her suffer. She has been blessed with great health for so many years, this has hit all of us very hard. <br />
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Since the health problems started my Grandma has done a lot of reflecting and pondering. She has also been planning her funeral. Something about being a part of all of this has had me thinking and reflecting a lot more as well. <br />
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One day, Lord willing, I will find myself growing weaker, and older, and having nothing but time to reflect on my life. What will my regrets be? What memories will stick out the most? What things will I wish I did more of? Less of? Because I am in the season of motherhood where it's easy to become too introspective and evaluate everything and feel guilty, I am hesitant to give in to this too much. Some reflection can be good though. <br />
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The days with the kids can feel like a blur. I can feel so burned out, so over touched, and overstimulated. I can regrettably say there have been times my kids have asked for a hug, and I say no. I get easily overwhelmed. That is something that surprised me when I became a mom. The crying, the noise, the mess, it tends to overwhelm me at times. I want to love and enjoy these days, but find myself wanting to crawl into a corner at times and be in complete silence. <br />
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Today I really wanted a break, I wanted to nap and catch up on some missed sleep with the baby last night. But Micah was not feeling that plan and didn't want to nap himself. I was so ready to snap at him, but when I looked into his eyes and saw a little boy who just needed a moment with me. My eyes teared up as I looked into his and realized in that moment he just needed me. I laid down with him and we talked for a few minutes and I gave him a hug. As I was hugging him I started to remember just last year, whenever I needed a nap during my pregnancy he would snuggle up next to me and we would drift off to sleep. It seems like just yesterday...but those days are gone. <br />
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Seasons come and seasons go so quickly. I sometimes long to go back and have a conversation with 2 year old Miya. So often I wish I could get a glimpse of those early days with each kid, their newness and fragility. But other than Moriah, those days are gone. And even with her those days are passing quicker than I would hope for. <br />
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The reality is, our days are like grass. Here today, gone tomorrow. I just wrote about <a href="https://lew-and-laura.blogspot.com/2016/03/enjoy-vs-joy.html">joy -vs- enjoy</a> and I have to walk the line between being overly introspective, but also reflecting in a healthy way to live my life to the fullest. I want to find that balance in life. I want to freely enjoy the "todays" but also feel free to grieve the "yesterdays". I think it's healthy and normal to miss days that have gone. The day I sent Miya to kindergarten and cried over her leaving. The day Milo learned how to walk. The day we met Moriah for the first time and I felt so overwhelmed with love for this 4th baby that we didn't think we would have. The day Micah said my name for the first time. The days are gone, I think it's ok to miss them a little.<br />
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I think sometimes when we grieve over the yesterdays, it helps us to enjoy the todays a little more. <br />
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Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-28813902260515172792016-03-24T09:10:00.000-04:002016-03-24T09:10:58.183-04:00Enjoy -vs- JoyI have been pondering this a lot lately. Joy is something we are called to fight for.<br />
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So, with that in mind what about the hard days? The days when you wake up feeling weary from the go, and no one feels sorry for you and you just want to go back to bed and reset? Still called to "rejoice?" Well I had this epiphany. We are called to fight for joy, but there is a difference between having "joy" and "enjoying" difficulty. <br />
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A few weeks ago I had one of those TKO weeks in motherhood. It was like a volcano erupted and even though each individual thing wasn't all that bad, it was everything combined that was so heavy I felt crushed under it all. </div>
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It started with Mo going from peaceful angelic baby to screamer like the flip of a switch. She was screaming sometimes on and off for hours in the evening and that is enough to grate anyone's nerves. Then she seemed to get a cold along with Miles as well which resulted in some sad whiny days, but I was still hanging on at this point. But after a few days of the screaming I was feeling frayed, cue Micah throwing up all over the living room and I lost it. NOT pretty. In front of all of my kids, while feeding Moriah, looking like a crazy lunatic I sobbed. Miya being the tender one she is sobbed with me telling me it would all be ok. I don't remember actually saying anything intelligible between the sobs while Lew tried to comfort me, but I think something along the lines of "I can't take one more thing, I can't do this!" I know it seems dramatic, but can I just say why is it that kids don't seem to know they need to throw up? And WHY do they move around while throwing up only to spread it as far and wide as they can? That will forever be a mystery to me. Either way after my sob fest I manned up and we proceeded to tackle the mess and create a bunker for the sick one who I was determined to keep from the other kids. Only I turn around and what is Miles doing but drinking out of the cup that Micah had been drinking out of all day. More tears from me. </div>
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We made it through that day and after 2 days I was feeling a little secure with the fact that no one else got it, although Miya wakes up with a fever. Dun Dun Dun. I decided to keep her home, hoping her tough immune system would begin fighting soon. Friday comes and we greet the day of the "procedure". Lew had put this on the calendar pretty much immediately after Mo was born. He was counting down as if it was an awesome vacation, or a sporting event he had been waiting for. Only, it was just a vasectomy. But still, he was so so ready to have it done. I was hesitant. What if one of the other kids gets sick, what if Miya starts throwing up? How will I handle it all on my own? I still had PTSD from the trauma of a few days prior. I was not sure I could handle anything else. But I knew he was not going to be ok with rescheduling. So, he leaves for his procedure. </div>
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An hour later Milo comes wandering down with no clothes on, not all that weird for him. I get him dressed and we go about our morning. An hour later I go upstairs to his room to discover chunks of orange all over his floor, all over his bed..and it hits me. Throw up. Everywhere. More tears, but this time I had to think fast. No backup meant I really had no choice but to "do". Began grabbing things and throwing them in trash bags trying to pick through what to keep and what to just trash. Stripping sheets, and attempting to get an idea what had been touched and honestly I think he just about touched everything, bless his heart. At this point I am still hanging in there, probably running on adrenaline. I run downstairs to start what will be many loads of laundry to find an empty bottle of laundry detergent. Waaaah. I feel like this is just a bad dream. But I have some amazing friends who drop off detergent and carpet cleaner AND encourage from a safe distance that everything will be ok. </div>
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Lew comes home and the poor guy is having to hear about all the drama of the morning and of course he is helpless at this point. And to top it off he was using padsicles as ice packs because I forgot to buy him an ice pack. But we made it. By the end of the day I think we both felt like we had been through a war. It was rough, but we survived. The days that followed were better, but still rough. Miya ended up with an awful case of Hand Foot and Mouth that caused sores all over her mouth and pretty much led to her feeling awful for a week. </div>
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The bottom line, I guess, is that I think as Christians we have the freedom to fight for Joy and ask God to fill us in the hard moments or days, but at the same time admit that we are not "enjoying" the struggles. That we can freely soak up the sweet moments for what they are, while simply enduring the difficult ones just fighting to make it through. I sometimes think there is this intense pressure as Moms to soak it up, live every moment knowing it will go fast. That is SO true. On the other side of it though I think we feel such guilt when we have a hard day, or a hard stretch and we feel like we should have "enjoyed it more". And typically, as you endure you are met with an unexplained joy.</div>
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So, I made a decision that I will consciously soak up the sweet moments, every single one of them. But in the hard moments, when I am struggling in those "stripped bare" moments of motherhood, I will fight for joy, while giving myself the freedom to simply endure. I know the days are long and the years are short, but I also know that for freedom I have been set free not to submit to a yolk of slavery (Galatians 5:1). I think we can easily set ourselves up to be slaves of "soaking it up" that we forget we are just humans with human emotions. It's ok to not enjoy scrubbing vomit out of the carpet. It's ok to endure car trips with a screaming baby and at the end say "glad that's over". Freedom.</div>
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I can't even believe that the last time I blogged was the birth of Micah. How does that even happen? How exactly is it that I have 4 children (2 since that last post). It's a profound mystery folks. When I was blogging back in the day, I seriously felt like I was writing for an audience. I mean truthfully an audience of maybe 10 or so (mostly made up of family) but an audience none the less. As I have gone back this week and read those old posts I see I was really writing for myself. Those moments, thoughts, and ideas captured, it's like a snapshot into history, and as I read them I feel like I am reading a history book of my life. These snapshots are like gold to me. Let me tell you, when you are in the "throws of it" you naively think "I will have no trouble remembering this!". But I am here to say that is just untrue. You think it will stick with you, but as I look back I see how little I actually remember from years past. <br />
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Looking back two things stick out to me more than anything else. <br />
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I have been shaped and molded these past several years. I feel like I have gone through the fire and come out changed.<br />
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Life has happened. I look back and I see a woman desperate to find her place in this world. Trying to figure out motherhood, friendships, faith, marriage. Looking at me now I am still figuring those things out. What is different now is I know I don't have to have all the answers. I have seen friendships come and go. I have made mistakes, a lot of them unfortunately. But I have learned what grace really is, and have learned to be gracious with myself. I have learned that it's ok to mess up, and own it without beating myself up. <br />
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I thought that blogging would be a great way to capture my kids growing up. But what it has really captured is me growing up. I am no longer that 20 something girl who worried so desperately about what people thought of me, or what the future would hold. I am no longer naive to loss or someone who views the loss of my toddlers naptime as "suffering". I have watched and comforted friends burying their children, parents, siblings, and have seen what suffering really is. I have been a student to these experiences and have learned a few things about God that I couldn't have learned any other way. Life has become so raw these past few years.<br />
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I have seen a church and community crumble under tragedy and scandal, something I never thought would happen. On the other side of it, I have seen people scatter to different churches, and different communities and be used in ways they never dreamt of. This was all born out of tragedy. It's a beautiful thing to see beauty come from ashes. <br />
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My husband and I have spent the past 2 years digging ourselves out of a broken marriage. Broken trust. Both of us have made mistakes and the result was bitterness and an overall lack of unity. When you are newly married you never think you will be that couple. The ones who all the sudden wake up and say "what the heck happened!? how did we get here?" But that is all part of the growing up too. You learn through mistakes, pain, heartache. We are mending now. Stronger in so many ways, all because we admitted we are weak and need help. All because God opened our eyes to the broken foundation we had built our marriage on all these years. What the enemy meant for evil, God meant for good.</div>
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It's an imperfect process, growing up. Nothing could have taught me the lessons I have learned over the past few years, other than pure experience. No amount of reading could have prepared me. If I could have gone back in time and told the person of the past that "xy & z" will happen, and here is how you survive it. Not only would I not have believed it, but it wouldn't have worked. You can't appreciate loss, hurt, or sorrow, until you have lived it. You can't appreciate the beauty that rises out of ashes, until you experience the fire and come out on the other side. <br />
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I have never been the emotional type. I would cry over the occasional hallmark commercial or love story, but haven't ever been one to cry easily. I even remember always mocking my Mom and teasing her when she cried over every movie and even over the news (sorry Mom) Now, there are straight up waterworks over the most random of things. Last night I was looking back through old letters I wrote to Miya when I was pregnant with her (more on that later), but when I began to go back through these letters I began to sob. I know she thought I was crazy as she sat next to me and I wept through these letters. As I read them it hit me, how far God has brought me. How far he has brought us. As a family. As individuals. We are on this journey of growing up together. Many times I don't feel a day over 20. But my reflection tells a much different story. Sometimes I catch my reflection in the front glass door, or walking by a mirror and it startles me a bit. I see a woman who has weathered a few storms, spit up almost always on my right shoulder, skin that could really use more moisturizer or even concealer, hair that hasn't been combed yet for that day or maybe event the day prior, and a muffin top that I have learned to embrace for the now. I see all this, and I am surprised by how comfortable I have become with this woman that I see. Not to say I don't aspire to take better care of myself when the newborn fog passes. But I have grown to respect those hips that are wider because they birthed 4 children. Those wrinkles that stand out more representing each passing year of life. The spit up that marks another miraculous human that is growing right before my eyes, fed and sustained only by my body. That muffin top that I know will eventually go away, but that I kind of don't want to lose too soon because that means my baby is getting older.<br />
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I have found myself, that person who always thought "what's next!!?", longing to hold on to today a little longer. Longing to hold my toddler who in a blink won't want to snuggle on my lap. Longing to hold on to that newborn who is still so fresh and who will be my very last. It pains me as I type those words. It pains me to reflect on the passing of time, to acknowledge that time waits for no one. These days, as hard as they are, are the most beautiful and I am certain the sweetest days of my life. As I type this I hear my baby girl waking up on the monitor after a 20 minute cat nap that took an hour to achieve. This imperfect life has shaped me. I see God in new and wonderful ways. I just kind of want to linger here for now. I know in a blink I will be looking back and crying over these words I just typed. But for now, I will just live and try not to worry over how quickly that day will come. <br />
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<br />Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-73515127856619319972011-08-16T19:24:00.004-04:002011-08-24T11:49:23.866-04:00The labor of a lifetime :)Our sweet little Micah James is here! Born 8/16 7:43 am 7lbs 6oz 20.5 inches, and so far he is doing great!
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<br />Though this labor was shorter than Miya's (36 hours vs 48 hours) it was different is SO many ways and so much more intense. I can't even describe how I saw God's hand at work through this labor and delivery and so here I am about 12 hours after delivery documenting my "story" because I don't want to forget all the fun details :)
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<br />So buckle your seat belt and prepare for a LONG story (more like a book):
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<br />Things really started last Tuesday the 11th, I had been having regular strong contractions on and off for days but they finally picked up this day so I was told to head into L&D. Because of my history of a c-section and my desire for a VBAC they pretty much wanted me to come in if I had regular contractions lasting more than a couple hours. After 8 hours in triage being monitored and making no progress we had to choose whether we would stay and be admitted most likely needing to use pitocin to pick things up, or to go home and just wait things out. Since we were hoping for a natural birth I really wanted to avoid pitocin if possible so we decided to go home, slightly disappointed, but really at peace with the decision. Pretty much off and on the entire week I had strong regular contractions that would pick up and slow down. The midwives kept saying "this is just prodromal labor...and unfortunately some women have this for weeks before they deliver" yikes not what I wanted to hear! So we just kept waiting for things to pick up and were told to call when things contractions were stronger, longer, and closer together.
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<br />So we waited and waited, it was truly agonizing. I wasn't in a rush to get him out, but I was having such a hard time discerning when I was really in labor with all the contractions I was having! So night after night I would be awakened by strong painful contractions that would go on for a few hours then like switch would just turn off. By my due date (8/14) I felt weary and exhausted. I shed a few tears and I think I had started to convince myself that he was never going to come! In the meantime we are at church that day and I notice I am having contractions throughout the day that are definitely painful and at times regular, but with my track record I just disregarded them and tried to get on with the day. By about 5 pm they were coming 3 minutes apart consistently. Now I know you are thinking: "wow 3 minutes apart you better get to the hospital!" but apparently this is just what my body does, at some points I could have them 2-3 minutes apart yet they wouldn't really pick up in intensity and eventually would taper off. So, with that in mind I just decided to wait it out. We decided to drop Miya off at my parents so that we could at least have the freedom to walk etc.. to see if things picked up. A dear friend Ana who had been a doula for many woman came to stay with me so Lew could rest. Having her there was priceless. We spent the night walking, bouncing on the ball, and trying to relax. My biggest enemy seemed to be my nerves, things would pick up I would get frantic and that anxiety would slow things down. By 2am that is just what happened. I was exhausted, my contractions were spacing out and I just started to panic. I couldn't see things just tapering off again, I was tired and just wanted to have this baby! I was knew I needed sleep but I was so afraid if I tried to sleep that things would stop progressing and it would be just like starting over again. But thanks to the persistence of Lew and Ana I decided to go to sleep and try to rest for a few hours. I even decided to sleep sitting up so at least it would make it easier for things to progress if they were going to. At 530 am I woke up to a really strong contraction, and from that point on they kept coming 3-4 minutes apart (and even closer when I was walking) and more intense than they had been. By 9 I had talked to my midwife and we were on our way in to the hospital.
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<br />When we get there we get into triage. I was hopeful that with all these contractions I had been having that maybe I would see some progress past the 2cm I had been the past week. Well much to my surprise I was still the same old 2cm I had been, the midwife tried to be encouraging by saying "it's a good 2 cm", but to me it was still no progress. I was once again given the choice of staying and possibly having to help my contractions out with pitocin, or going home. Lew and I both felt like the best decision was to stay since it really seemed like my body was ready. I laughed and looked at the midwife and said "We aren't leaving without a baby" :). So, we were admitted and amazingly the "no turning back" feeling was SO calming to me and I was finally able to relax and just let labor pick up. But much to my dismay after about 6 hours of regular contractions I still was stuck at a 2cm. The midwives were about to switch over at 7pm and they basically presented the option of doing a small dose of pitocin to help my contractions to get stronger and closer together. At this point I was already having to be monitored the entire time, so without being able to walk etc... they didn't think things would pick up. Not only that but the OB who was back up on call for the midwives that night was one of the only ones who would approve pitocin for a VBAC so this was really my only chance. So, we went for it. I was kind of hesitant because I had really wanted to go natural (no pain meds). Why? Because I'm crazy :) But I knew we had tried everything to get things to pick up and if getting pitocin meant needing an epidural that still was much better than having to get another c-section in my opinion. So we started pitocin at 6:30pm.
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<br />At first it really freaked me out because the pitocin had started and I just completely stopped having contractions for about a 1/2 hour. I called the midwife Dusty in and she explained that pitocin works on a negative feedback loop so it takes a while for it to get into a good rhythm with your body's natural oxytocin. Thankful within the hour they were coming on at about 4 minutes apart and picking up in intensity. By about 11 if I remember correctly I was having to breath through them and really feeling a lot more pain by this point, but I remember still being really happy and talkative between contractions (Ana and Lew will have to verify that for me :)) Dusty came in to check for progress, and I knew from previous experience to set my expectations low. Thankful that I did because I was only 3cm and while I was 100% effaced baby boy still hadn't dropped very far. Dusty wasn't comfortable breaking my water because He wasn't low enough and I hadn't progressed enough. So we just kept going up on the pitocin and trying to encourage things along. At this point the "bomb" was dropped that the back up OB coming on in the morning at 7am was not supportive of pitocin in VBAC's so I was down to about 9 hours of having the pitocin and hopefully making progress. We all chuckled and looked at each other like "no way I'll still be in labor at that point". If only I knew :)
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<br />This is where I lose track of time some. I think by about 3am the pitocin was really in full swing contractions were coming about 2 minutes apart and all the sudden out of the blue I started to have the most wicked back pain I had ever felt in my entire life...actually I would say worst pain in general that I have ever felt. When the contractions would come on it would feel like my back was just going to break under the pressure. The weirdest thing was the pain was right under my rib cage, it made no sense and no one had ever seen that kind of pain in labor. They were thinking it was just referred pain. The only way I could survive a contraction was to have Ana or Lew put a lot of pressure right over the spot where it was hurting. Even still with that I was barely coping with contractions. And by 4am I was shaking, crying, and probably doing a lot of yelling/groaning. Amazing how quickly I lost my composure :) The nurse came in and saw me and said "uh-oh, let me get the midwife to check your progress" I thought for sure this intense pain would mean I was making some descent progress, at least I hoped!
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<br />Dusty came in and checked me...and boy was I shocked to hear I was only 4cm. At this point Dusty said "I think you are fighting against yourself at this point, I really think some pain control would help you relax enough to progress" That's all I needed to hear. Through tears I shouted "get me that epidural" :) The anesthesiologist came in and I have to say this was one of the hardest parts for me. I have a terrible fear of needles, and trying to stay still through not only the fear but the terrible contractions was very hard. Poor Lew had his hands squeezed to death, I am so glad I didn't break any of his fingers. Once it was in I only felt really numb on one side. But for the most part the back pain was gone and I was finally relaxed. Dusty broke my water at this point and said she would come back to check me again within the hour. The only bad part at was another nurse had temporarily taken over for my nurse and she didn't seem totally competent, or very nice at that. She wouldn't explain anything she was doing and just mumbled everything under breath. At this point I was so tired so I almost didn't care. I had sent Lew and Ana to sleep for a little bit, and had planned to try to rest myself. But at 430ish that same fill in nurse came in and just started flipping me around in the bed and I saw her turn off the pitocin and at this point she is still mumbling under her breath. I guess my feisty side came out as I asked her what on earth she was doing and she said "oh the baby". I'm like "the baby what!?" To which she said "baby's not liking this, we need to turn you." And at this point I say "Ummm, shouldn't you turn me on my left side and put some oxygen on me?" Never good when you are having to tell a nurse what to do, and I always try not to do that, but really? Anyways she turned me over and I just laid there crying. With my labor with Miya she had started to not tolerate the pitocin at the end and soon after I was getting a c-section. I was so afraid that we were heading in that direction after all this hard work. Plus we were losing precious time on the pitocin as I had only 2 hours left to be on it.
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<br />By 5am Dusty came in and checked me, I was only a 5. She started the pitocin again at a really low dose since Micah's heart rate had been stable again. While she was still hopeful she had to drop the bomb again...but only this time she had to mention the possibility of another c-section. She said I know you don't want to hear this, and I don't want to say it, but really by 7am we will need to keep the pitocin off. And if there is little to no progress by that point the on call OB will probably start to push towards a c-section. At this point I became totally determined and focused. I knew it seemed impossible that I would show enough progress in 2 hours especially since it had taken me almost 34 hours to get 2 cm. But I knew God was bigger and so Lew and I started calling/emailing people to pray.
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<br />By 530 am I was feeling some crazy intense pain and pressure despite the epidural. Contractions were no longer spaced out at all but coming right on top of each other. I started to feel really out of it and was shaking uncontrollably and gripping as tightly to the side rail as I could. They called the anesthesiologist in to give me a re-dose of the epidural. He came in and saw me and said "how far along did they say you had progressed at the last check?" I said "5cm" he said "I think you are further than that now!" Music to my ears. But I was too much "in the zone" to process anything. The epidural was working again but the shaking and pressure I was feeling was so intense. The nurse just looked at me and said "I think you are in transition, and I think you are in the home stretch." I was too afraid to admit that was true, because of the little progress over the past 34 hours, but I also knew I had never felt this way before. Plus from what I had read on transition this pretty much looked just as it was described. I started to tell Lew and Ana "I feel something, I think it's his head, but I don't know." I think they thought I was crazy at that point, I don't think any of us could believe I had progressed that far in less than an hour.
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<br />Dusty came in at 6am and looked at me and said "oh boy let's check you". She didn't have to do much checking because she immediately said "ummm yup you're feeling all this because his head is right here." We all just laughed and celebrated. I had just progressed 5-10cm in less than an hour and was ready to push. I don't think any of us had expected to actually make the 7am deadline, but we did, and I was practically giddy at this point. Dusty laughed and said "I did what always works to get a woman to progress: mention a c-section, and go take a nap!" They got the room geared up and it was time to push.
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<br />Amazingly this was the the part I feared the most, yet it ended up being by far the easiest part. Poor Lew had the job of holding my leg which was pretty much dead weight at this point. I think the funniest part of the labor was when he accidentally let go to get a drink of water and my leg fell on the midwife, thankfully she was paying attention and caught it, I think otherwise it would have knocked it out. Another funny part was just how giddy and happy I was while pushing. I think I was just so relieved to be almost done, and so thankful for my epidural :) A half hour through the pushing I was almost there and was even offering Lew sips of water between contractions. It was pretty funny. Almost an hour in I just knew this was going to be my last push, and it was, our little guy was born at 7:43am and it was seriously one of the most amazing joy filled moment of my life. To actually be an active part of the birth was so much different than my c-section with Miya, I was just so thankful to be able to see him and hold him right away. Not to have blue curtains separating me from him, and to have no one snatching him out of my arms after only 5 minutes. I got to hold him for a good 45 minutes after the birth and the room just was full of happiness. The nurses were great, the midwives were great, Ana and Lew were the best supports I could have asked for. It truly was one of the hardest and most amazing experiences of my entire life. And yet even in that moment I'm pretty sure I looked at Lew and said "I could do this 10 more times" and Lew got a nervous look on his face and said "umm maybe" The amnesia that follows birth is probably one of the most miraculous parts of it all.
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<br />After the deliver was just so peaceful. I felt like I was surrounded by friends and it was really just a great experience. I was full of energy which was incredible because I had only slept 3 hours in 48 hours. But I felt so good, and so proud :)
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<br />That's the story! So far the recovery has been great. I feel good, and have to keep being reminded to rest because I feel so "normal" it's almost hard to remember it's just been over a week. I am so thankful for the gift these 2 kiddos are. I know big adjustments are ahead, especially for Miya. But all in all I couldn't be more thankful.
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<br />Blogger isn't letting me post pictures, so you can check out the facebook album <a href="http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10150281569551275.335565.588156274&l=f325dee64b&type=1">here.</a>
<br />Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-41256003717177920192011-07-21T08:12:00.003-04:002011-07-21T08:23:34.514-04:0036 week update...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhsFMKlFEfl-qVrr8p_5y4otZRDKM0giXDlNLx67Dx94r8fObx-X-FYULe2_HV3PuvXFgZTaP4jHqZDEvhAZAkER25yUzd6H9MsNjHrIfMFiQvQZiCFcZ30YDozXXdIjWkuLf9pRA/s1600/DSC_0074.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 268px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhsFMKlFEfl-qVrr8p_5y4otZRDKM0giXDlNLx67Dx94r8fObx-X-FYULe2_HV3PuvXFgZTaP4jHqZDEvhAZAkER25yUzd6H9MsNjHrIfMFiQvQZiCFcZ30YDozXXdIjWkuLf9pRA/s400/DSC_0074.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5631779644977013522" border="0" /></a><br />Had my 36 week appointment this week, seriously having a hard time believing we are really that close (I will actually be 37 weeks the day after tomorrow, yikes!). So far Micah is head down (yay!) I am 1cm dilated and 50% effaced. About what I expected at this point. The midwife said he is in a "good" position, I'll take her word for it :) Our goal is to go for a VBAC (avoid another c-section) and so far the midwives are very hopeful that I will be able to do that, Lord willing. So what's on my agenda the next 3 weeks? Well I decided to schedule myself up until my due date, it helps keep me moving and so far I am still feeling really good physically so I figure why not? Sleep hasn't been great, but that isn't a surprise, and amazingly my body has gotten used to sleeping in 3 hour increments and somehow I still make it through the day without feeling too bad. <br /><br />The common question I have been asked lately: (I guess it's twofold :)) "Are you ready?" and "is the nursery ready?" I just have to chuckle about the nursery question because my answer is a resounding.... No :) I have been totally unmotivated this time to work on his room. I have some things to hang and a few ideas, but I just keep thinking that he will be in our room for a little while and I'm sure I will have time while on my maternity leave to work on his room. And hopefully we will be have miya out of the toddler bed by then so we can turn it back into a crib for Micah. Until then, little man will just room in with us, and if that doesn't work then he can sleep in his pack-n-play. We still need to get some furniture for his room and I am so caught up in just keeping up with the day to day that this hasn't been high on my list....but eventually it will get done, and little man will be none the wiser :)<br /><br />Hard to believe he could come any time now. Miya is getting excited and keeps asking "when we going to da hospital to get baby micah?"Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-44447995275028083282011-07-15T07:37:00.002-04:002011-07-15T07:40:13.016-04:00Motherhood is a CallingIf you haven't read this yet, I suggest you hop over to desiring God to check it out, you won't regret it!!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.desiringgod.org/blog/posts/motherhood-is-a-calling-and-where-your-children-rank">Motherhood is a Calling</a><br /><br />It's an article written by the woman who wrote "Loving the Little Years: Motherhood in the Trenches" one of my newest favorite books. A huge plus is you can read the book in one sitting if you want.Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-79739318737465491722011-07-11T07:42:00.003-04:002011-07-15T07:36:49.911-04:00Big girl.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeVr7M_ArULaTwfmmLxJntWu5j-qpH3wOym2WkPeDz_W9jkN_gmoN-yHjIbJTNxMQbo67at41qW7yFbXJzsso9sCOfzLr3bq6e6GkNnDDbnesx3uiJZBUYgR3pHxUhQI3Ht7Rw9w/s1600/DSC_0004.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeVr7M_ArULaTwfmmLxJntWu5j-qpH3wOym2WkPeDz_W9jkN_gmoN-yHjIbJTNxMQbo67at41qW7yFbXJzsso9sCOfzLr3bq6e6GkNnDDbnesx3uiJZBUYgR3pHxUhQI3Ht7Rw9w/s400/DSC_0004.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5628061291373553410" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8KpmBy4mevDdfGcV-VK2ST1JwY0k2MSU2ZnuNkQfHih9VvXDMdW3UkcZHlsrcZd93oBS7Ac37W9K5a7Ce6QPXYaiiYnRSyBcVXk3_N70m28BEecJ3Ck9ixobVePfXiw9s3LZ1yg/s1600/DSC_0005.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8KpmBy4mevDdfGcV-VK2ST1JwY0k2MSU2ZnuNkQfHih9VvXDMdW3UkcZHlsrcZd93oBS7Ac37W9K5a7Ce6QPXYaiiYnRSyBcVXk3_N70m28BEecJ3Ck9ixobVePfXiw9s3LZ1yg/s400/DSC_0005.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5628061286136985442" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBUpiUwzCiY76zOHThQYpCQGNm-UQeV3k62afpCzqJEgXV9VRIZd32j_G4ctskWOn-3_4pcreWHjhsACE1LH1Z03zdeYOCpqCYWSiKWWFVg5simiOLwO9mcpbq1Zzg68gw4I1fyQ/s1600/DSC_0002.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 268px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhBUpiUwzCiY76zOHThQYpCQGNm-UQeV3k62afpCzqJEgXV9VRIZd32j_G4ctskWOn-3_4pcreWHjhsACE1LH1Z03zdeYOCpqCYWSiKWWFVg5simiOLwO9mcpbq1Zzg68gw4I1fyQ/s400/DSC_0002.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5628061294058102450" border="0" /></a><br />Something about being in the last month of this pregnancy is making me nostalgic, probably the awareness that time will only speed up with the addition of another child. It hit me this past week that when people ask how old Miya is, we no longer refer to her age in "months" as we have pretty much her whole life. It was always natural to respond with oh she's __ months. Now we just say...."oh she turned 2 in March" or she'll be 2 1/2 soon, or in the especially frazzled moments "she's 2". I just have such a hard time believing how big she is getting and I just keep feeling that I not only want to soak up every moment with her, but also realizing how much I want to document so I can remember all this fun stuff!<br /><br />What she is saying: (or should we say what is she NOT saying...the talking seems to never stop :))<br /><br />- "Make baby Micah dance!" She somehow finds some amusement in me moving my belly so she can see micah "dance"<br /><br />- "Oh I love lemolade, I will have mommy's lemolade!" Referring to my water with lemon in it :)<br /><br />- "Hug Mommy...I NEED to hug Mommy" usually said with urgency, and usually during a time where she is being asked to do something she doesn't want to.<br /><br />- "Jesus pweas help Miya...I'm pwaying!!" Bless her heart Miya has been saying these little short prayers on her own these days and the funniest part is she realizes she is saying them and all the sudden stops praying and yells "oh I'm pwaying!!" as if it catches her by surprise, or she wants to make sure Mommy and Daddy know.<br /><br />- "I need to go poo poo!" (repeated over and over and usually with tears and holding on to mommy and or daddy with a death grip) not to be confused with the casual "i need to go to potty", in this instance this is her "catch phrase" when she is terrified of something and wants one of us to save her. She will repeat this over and over and over usually followed by "I need to go home". A few of her BIG fears/dislikes lately:<br /><ul><li>airshow and any loud airplanes</li><li>any sudden loud noises</li><li>fireworks</li><li>parades</li><li>clowns</li></ul>I feel like there is more but those are the major ones for now. Why she chooses this phrase when she is afraid? We think she believes that if she says it we will remove her from the situation or person that is scary to her.<br /><br />- "Papa you want to go to a baseball game? yeah yets go to a baseball game" a girl after her daddy's heart.<br /><br />- When I put her down in her big girl bed she has learned to say "don't get out until mommy comes to get you!" amazingly she also tells on herself when she doesn't obey this rule by immediately saying when I come in to get her "Miya get out." <br /><br />- "Chawge!" she is in love with the "charge" cheer at baseball games, in fact she sometimes wants us to cheer it while she is on the potty.<br /><br />- "I wuv baby Micah, can I hug him?" followed by hugs and kisses to my belly.<br /><br />- "I'm fwimming!" still love how she still sometimes replaces her "s" with a "f" sound. She is referring to swimming here, her favorite summer activity thus far.<br /><br />- She understands consequences at this point. When we ask her what happens when she disobeys she replies with " Miya gets an ipapwin" pronounced just like dicipline but missing the d and with the "w" sound replacing the "l" sound. Silly girl.<br /><br /><br />She has been so affectionate and silly. I love this age so much, even in though it truly is the most exhausting stage of motherhood so far. She says so many funny things and does so many funny things. Trying to soak up all this 1 on 1 time we have before Micah comes. <br /><br />A few other quirks I want to remember: <br /><ul><li>She insists on sleeping with 15+ stuffed animals and dolls. She is literally surrounded by them all</li><li>She loves fruit and many times will choose fruit over other forms of dessert</li><li>She has just started to name her stuffed animals and dolls and carry them around like they are her babies</li><li>She likes to carry funny little random toys and place them at funny places all over the house, bathroom, steps, foyer, underneath furniture. It makes for a fun treasure hunt at the end of the day after she goes to bed.</li></ul><br />She is also 90% potty trained. Basically completely trained during the day (woohoo!) and still working on nighttime. But truthfully, having her trained during the day has been awesome now that she finally gets it! But getting there was quite the challenge. Figuring out the right routine and helping to work through her fears of public bathrooms. But I am happy to report on Wednesday for the first time EVER Miya actually went potty in a public restroom! It was such a triumph, after MONTHS and MONTHS of her refusing to even want to sit on a public toilet, let alone even enter a public bathroom, she not only sat on the potty but actually went. We made a huge deal and she got ice cream afterwards. It makes it so much easier when we are out and about now. <br /><br />That's it for now. I will do a pregnancy update after my 36 week appointment on Wednesday. Hard to believe I am that close!Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-58148155977184586492011-06-16T07:14:00.002-04:002011-06-16T07:56:08.571-04:00My weakness...If your thinking "blogging is sure a weakness" considering it's been, I dunno 6 months or more since I blogged. Yep I would say I've been pretty "weak" in blogging, but that's not what I am referring to :) <br /><br />God has been opening my eyes to my weakness lately and as I was journaling/praying some this morning I realized this is a snapshot that I want to capture and keep for years ahead when I need encouragement. Here is a little tidbit from my journal this morning to clue you in on what life has been like lately. Maybe some of you Mom's can relate...<br /><br /><blockquote>"Last night was a LONG restless sort of night. Miya was up crying several times for no real reason. I had a hard time sleeping and getting comfortable and just when I would fall asleep she was cry again. In the midst of the restlessness my mind started to race and I was filled with anxiety about baby Micah's arrival and the sleepless nights that await me. Then it hit me that these are opportunities for me to turn to you and trust You. Times where you are preparing me for what is to come. Not so I can fret over the days ahead, bu so I can press into you and sow seeds of faith in my heart now to prepare me for what is to come. This is, in many senses, Your kindness to me. I don't want to go into this next season naive to the challenges. Yes having a newborn will be exhausting at times, yes Miya has entered a very challenging stage requiring much time, patience, and training, yes balancing life with 2 kids will mean less time and energy for my wants and desires, yes sleepless nights and days are in my future--BUT God promises grace for all of these things, He promises to have gone before me and promises to know all my weakness. He promises his grace is sufficient and his strength is made perfect in weakness. So I don't have to look ahead in fear, but I can have eyes of faith for what God is doing and will do in the future!"</blockquote><br /><br />This is just a glimpse into where my heart was this morning, the word "weakness" sums up how I have felt the last few weeks. Physical weakness as I enter the last 2 months of my pregnancy and chase a busy toddler. Emotional weakness as I parent a toddler who many times has a mind of her own and a will that seems so insurmountable; at times I can feel like giving up is the easier bet. Sometimes it's laughable how God is using Miya to show me my weakness. She pinpoints just about every trigger I have to the point where my nerves feel shot by the end of the day. Don't get me wrong about how much I love our girl, and how thankful I am to be her mommy. None of that has changed. But we have entered what has become the most difficult stage so far, and there have been days where I cry out "ummm God I can't do this!" After a challenging few days where I feel like everything has been a battle with her and I have been so tempted to be angry towards her disobedience, even tempted to think that somehow working full time would be easier; God has opened my eyes to his purposes in all this. He is using Miya to show me how dependent I am on Him. He has perfectly tailored this girl to point me to grace and show me my complete helplessness. Of course Miya has no clue at this point the role she plays in this, she is just a sinful toddler who wants her way and will fight for it, but God is using her in big ways to humble me. All this to say it's nights like last night that I am so aware of what God is doing, and so aware of my need to cry out constantly. I can't go a day or hour without crying out because I am aware of my weakness on so many levels. <br /><br />I have been reading one of my favorite parenting books by Elyse Fitzpatrick lately called "Give them Grace", I couldn't recommend more highly. Here are a few portions that have stuck out to me:<br /><br /><blockquote>"It is a kindness when he strips us of self-reliance, because it is there, in our emptiness and brokenness, that we experience the privilege of his sustaining grace. It is only when we arrive at that dreaded place of weakness that we discover the surpassing power of Christ. It is only when we are finally freed from the oh-so-constricting straighjackets of self-righteousness that we are able to experience that true comfort and warmth of the robes of righteousness."</blockquote><br /><br /><blockquote>"The compliant child's life lies to us, assuring us that she is good because we're such good parents. Difficult children tell us the truth: God loves his enemies, and he can infuse us with a grace that will make us lay down their lives for them too. Their rebellion is a verification of the gospel: we produce sinful children because we are sinners. God's power is displayed through our failures when we tether ourselves to the gospel message of sin and forgiveness, no matter how how desperate the situation becomes." <br /></blockquote><br />So all in all I am feeling very humbled right now, but also very blessed. Blessed by the gift of motherhood and how God is using it to strip away life's comforts to allow me to grow in perseverance and grace. Stripping away the layers of "ease" that I can idolize so much and showing me a better way in laying down my life. <br /><br />I can look ahead in excitement for how God will meet me as we welcome our boy in less than 2 months. I don't have to look ahead with fears of "how will I do it!?" But I can rest assured that on my own I can't do it, but thankfully Christ lived the perfect life for me so I can claim this promise:<br /><br /><blockquote> Since then we have a great high priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus, the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.<br />(Hebrews 4:14-16 ESV)</blockquote><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;">Amen!<br /></div>Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-47294286157028412052011-04-08T09:00:00.013-04:002011-04-10T15:42:14.096-04:00Zoo<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1Ab1TS_28bkYrE-LTJoEnMB6tkxJWgPq2mrD-DPkqYC8bW8r81ROrDR0Kl5bpHI3aMfkIjy2JG12PttX86oDnmOihnvp0NabKcyrFqLlJZHV3mqJCVygvzF1Cwgaj0HfsrE_lcA/s1600/DSC_0007.JPG"><br /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUlG93mq8sqKakIzeoMCylxBCRwQB_lstXXbK0UODr_tlumKjWtW3WWjUl3SoG8Gp6Hi4xTjbpON01tiVQ6hWQLIjPqFKtqJQrTczBVsgX6UIjVoAWxOKZStC-5L3N8RPMNkTtOA/s1600/DSC_0006.JPG"><br /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmCV2x9LQmk6PzFRfuQ77NqaT1Ea_4E2TukXNUUrD9Ue3yOUwmc9giPgtx27A13QqIxIxy0Z2wEKe1-jrERXFY-Tr5atRyYLTEG5PE3b5NRdhqrXxUEXD0fO49lBAw_1_6C1waDw/s1600/DSC_0009.JPG"><br /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzQdrzffxPkRgx8azDSvh9XZ-xkK0sZbcvkM888cer23u9pZQNoTW5LQ1lty65XY5g-usd8ZNO-V1cHla6KUzQ8MPB80VrZENr7-8ROHw2b3viZqsytEcB8_6N0QXUQUqYXvQ8vA/s1600/DSC_0008.JPG"><br /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOoV7I09u9IZTCybaApvsMhFRiSG1dtI0g4oj3Pc2EvdDrX-zGSbkTqYKdEH37DoI3OnMz_BT7i_0FXhvikvlwh5QC0vh9-GFArHj69mbiFbDL8yNjaERqqjsa5PbROykyjdS21Q/s1600/DSC_0012.JPG"><br /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn95M4qs10q-cEQCS1lwPa5pXdoHt8pbx5O3OynfPn4IcrCPbFjB9i9jaz11SuzUpMeKkA3JK6i1vm32F-3wSH80lDV0MYRB05QmNd94B2ZO93gnERljvyi8N4vRm7CVbP2FMVQw/s1600/DSC_0020.JPG"><br /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMKBlgjlagQhPLmgI_37evgJTr2ZN7fc0hUnMBbquwuXWm0ls7Ptm29hD_7RWUfOFA4UkD4XoQb8mJu7xOFhVfAzaazBV9H-r9kWOXeRrFxtQJserZojYARjEvEgkd44qfcF-S3A/s1600/DSC_0021.JPG"><br /></a>We had the joy of having the Lewis family visiting this past week, and took advantage of the one beautiful day we had with temps into the 80's! Who knew how precious a little sunshine could be when we have had such a dreary spring so far. So we went to the zoo. My original thought was: this is perfect we will go around 10 (metro down) walk around, grab lunch, walk around some more looking at animals, take our time...and head home around 3ish to beat rush hour. Yes that meant skipping naptime, but come on we're talking about the zoo here! Well we all know things never go how we "imagine" them with a toddler.<br /><br />So our day looked more like: leave the house closer to 11, get down to DC closer to 12, try to convince a hungry tired toddler that she'd rather look at animals in the distance than eat lunch (didn't win that one) then to cave after only being there for 20 or so minutes by standing in line for 30 minutes at the only open place to buy lunch (after snacks didn't suffice) walk around for about another 1/2 hour to 45 minutes...then to have our toddler convince us she was ready to go home around 1:30. Def. not as I expected, BUT if you ask Miya about her zoo experience she will say it was SO FUN! She thought it was awesome. I think toddlers are just that fickle :) And truly I am convinced 2 hours feels like 5 to a child. So in her eyes she was there all day! <br /><br />Either way it was a fun memory and Miya did have lot's of highlights that she is still talking about today. Her favorite? The panda! The funniest thing was this was the furthest away animal she saw. You can see in the pic below the panda sitting in tree eating a branch. As miya describes: "panda pull down da bwanch and eat it!" she will say it over and over again laughing every time. It was definitely her highlight, and I now think panda's are her "favowite" animal.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOoV7I09u9IZTCybaApvsMhFRiSG1dtI0g4oj3Pc2EvdDrX-zGSbkTqYKdEH37DoI3OnMz_BT7i_0FXhvikvlwh5QC0vh9-GFArHj69mbiFbDL8yNjaERqqjsa5PbROykyjdS21Q/s1600/DSC_0012.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOoV7I09u9IZTCybaApvsMhFRiSG1dtI0g4oj3Pc2EvdDrX-zGSbkTqYKdEH37DoI3OnMz_BT7i_0FXhvikvlwh5QC0vh9-GFArHj69mbiFbDL8yNjaERqqjsa5PbROykyjdS21Q/s400/DSC_0012.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593259709623122098" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBnyhV_169oXZ4lKCwSUaIAF0oEXMIw7VPlQgtYO5KlPqAJ2wQHts-dMpokF-8t2WSL4l6KNpBGaYSECD5Jkr9Dzh1wqgm_CqHtxNjbx1Ud78zhvomc4Rfn0kmH5woQX6kqTJOxw/s1600/DSC_0002.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBnyhV_169oXZ4lKCwSUaIAF0oEXMIw7VPlQgtYO5KlPqAJ2wQHts-dMpokF-8t2WSL4l6KNpBGaYSECD5Jkr9Dzh1wqgm_CqHtxNjbx1Ud78zhvomc4Rfn0kmH5woQX6kqTJOxw/s400/DSC_0002.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593261284334474834" border="0" /></a><br />Miya's fav spot to be perched: "papas showdas"<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUlG93mq8sqKakIzeoMCylxBCRwQB_lstXXbK0UODr_tlumKjWtW3WWjUl3SoG8Gp6Hi4xTjbpON01tiVQ6hWQLIjPqFKtqJQrTczBVsgX6UIjVoAWxOKZStC-5L3N8RPMNkTtOA/s1600/DSC_0006.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 268px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUlG93mq8sqKakIzeoMCylxBCRwQB_lstXXbK0UODr_tlumKjWtW3WWjUl3SoG8Gp6Hi4xTjbpON01tiVQ6hWQLIjPqFKtqJQrTczBVsgX6UIjVoAWxOKZStC-5L3N8RPMNkTtOA/s400/DSC_0006.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593260968215304434" border="0" /></a><br />engrossed in her panda viewing.<br /><br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmCV2x9LQmk6PzFRfuQ77NqaT1Ea_4E2TukXNUUrD9Ue3yOUwmc9giPgtx27A13QqIxIxy0Z2wEKe1-jrERXFY-Tr5atRyYLTEG5PE3b5NRdhqrXxUEXD0fO49lBAw_1_6C1waDw/s1600/DSC_0009.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmCV2x9LQmk6PzFRfuQ77NqaT1Ea_4E2TukXNUUrD9Ue3yOUwmc9giPgtx27A13QqIxIxy0Z2wEKe1-jrERXFY-Tr5atRyYLTEG5PE3b5NRdhqrXxUEXD0fO49lBAw_1_6C1waDw/s400/DSC_0009.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593259976045659634" border="0" /></a><br />sunny sunglasses day :)<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzQdrzffxPkRgx8azDSvh9XZ-xkK0sZbcvkM888cer23u9pZQNoTW5LQ1lty65XY5g-usd8ZNO-V1cHla6KUzQ8MPB80VrZENr7-8ROHw2b3viZqsytEcB8_6N0QXUQUqYXvQ8vA/s1600/DSC_0008.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzQdrzffxPkRgx8azDSvh9XZ-xkK0sZbcvkM888cer23u9pZQNoTW5LQ1lty65XY5g-usd8ZNO-V1cHla6KUzQ8MPB80VrZENr7-8ROHw2b3viZqsytEcB8_6N0QXUQUqYXvQ8vA/s400/DSC_0008.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593259981959219634" border="0" /></a><br />she really was that enthralled by the panda!<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqqqWcDKxJq3QHaK533jY8bwBW-cbk9vk48_G4H7RKSExgq2hDUZkx5dHJo7pHZv7kSab6T9s-21haF9bypICTafduwmjRtyyOjsztwhpJDdrNxXHzRIEvFwAOlof0IsZIJS2jig/s1600/DSC_0028.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqqqWcDKxJq3QHaK533jY8bwBW-cbk9vk48_G4H7RKSExgq2hDUZkx5dHJo7pHZv7kSab6T9s-21haF9bypICTafduwmjRtyyOjsztwhpJDdrNxXHzRIEvFwAOlof0IsZIJS2jig/s400/DSC_0028.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593197453788728354" border="0" /></a><br />These orangutangs were the cutest. The were so lovey dovey and just kinda snuggled together every once and a while posing for a picture<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWpd5k08Aw1SFYsxMmkjsg8iOliZkXv0hPpHc1ULrjsSDmkMGoNYS0s80PqntmjhrcQjKwj9NGTxVayuUsmwWMY-aUn7YfIwrpFosiZ7VcGZ_QUFdMvdOguSDCedJrE6lKZQJwBg/s1600/DSC_0030.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 268px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWpd5k08Aw1SFYsxMmkjsg8iOliZkXv0hPpHc1ULrjsSDmkMGoNYS0s80PqntmjhrcQjKwj9NGTxVayuUsmwWMY-aUn7YfIwrpFosiZ7VcGZ_QUFdMvdOguSDCedJrE6lKZQJwBg/s400/DSC_0030.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593236135476876354" border="0" /></a><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizFGbIs8s2JWqoy8btsMt6cvDPjhCed9WcxbDwed6X7VvS93liKqBXZqcFi1775ScI0wHsW-jvQVPa0KQzGLz-wR7Ifr7Jm2PuRiNk0AnKYibVF4RemFvAaM1S-V2-uga3N40AkQ/s1600/DSC_0017.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizFGbIs8s2JWqoy8btsMt6cvDPjhCed9WcxbDwed6X7VvS93liKqBXZqcFi1775ScI0wHsW-jvQVPa0KQzGLz-wR7Ifr7Jm2PuRiNk0AnKYibVF4RemFvAaM1S-V2-uga3N40AkQ/s400/DSC_0017.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593236153418218178" border="0" /></a><br />Hanging with Nana and Dedad<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8VzOnKajRkLInlKQIhEjJX1N4OOOnz11zcBvjDj_nqxHtz3qPuN2L9GVQrngsJocYgvYTcpkXtgdtVo4MSQ0Lc4Y0h0mGdM4eFLM9vjAaHr5EdWD8AZifyaq1ykspTDMre6Myqg/s1600/DSC_0027.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8VzOnKajRkLInlKQIhEjJX1N4OOOnz11zcBvjDj_nqxHtz3qPuN2L9GVQrngsJocYgvYTcpkXtgdtVo4MSQ0Lc4Y0h0mGdM4eFLM9vjAaHr5EdWD8AZifyaq1ykspTDMre6Myqg/s400/DSC_0027.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593236138749137090" border="0" /></a><br />Miya loves her dedad!<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZRkEW4cyE1dxW5jHDke3Dk5xe_q1yWiZPyf0Uo7eL-CCqS7XyOvkMqYSvXlauCSkmn4pvl4rY2XUr9zlAskjqXqzG2dT0tLd0rabLTK1hlz8XE23rxSesqD9ilOZd-AFcp4aGMQ/s1600/DSC_0025.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 268px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZRkEW4cyE1dxW5jHDke3Dk5xe_q1yWiZPyf0Uo7eL-CCqS7XyOvkMqYSvXlauCSkmn4pvl4rY2XUr9zlAskjqXqzG2dT0tLd0rabLTK1hlz8XE23rxSesqD9ilOZd-AFcp4aGMQ/s400/DSC_0025.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593236143988506274" border="0" /></a><br />mmm "pwum" miya is obsessed with them lately.<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn95M4qs10q-cEQCS1lwPa5pXdoHt8pbx5O3OynfPn4IcrCPbFjB9i9jaz11SuzUpMeKkA3JK6i1vm32F-3wSH80lDV0MYRB05QmNd94B2ZO93gnERljvyi8N4vRm7CVbP2FMVQw/s1600/DSC_0020.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn95M4qs10q-cEQCS1lwPa5pXdoHt8pbx5O3OynfPn4IcrCPbFjB9i9jaz11SuzUpMeKkA3JK6i1vm32F-3wSH80lDV0MYRB05QmNd94B2ZO93gnERljvyi8N4vRm7CVbP2FMVQw/s400/DSC_0020.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593236526057893314" border="0" /></a><br />the "zebwas" another miya highlight<br /><br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;">All in all Miya was satisfied with her trip, and mommy got some mango gelato (for a whopping 5 bucks for a small....gotta love those zoo prices :)) so I'd say it was a win. <br /></div></div>Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-1912997981851667842011-04-08T08:30:00.003-04:002011-04-08T08:59:04.372-04:00We are having...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJzYStIZlXYF7WFazeguUcMDeSIdDHFZwGcziQNIZiHrX60nEeoHjk7YBDoU6qgfI2z1enU15Lx54eVSUoG71mEuXanHeVpdjqD4aeN5_BCqw38TMa3AgAYrt0S2inNCPpLBXjVw/s1600/DSC_0037.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 288px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJzYStIZlXYF7WFazeguUcMDeSIdDHFZwGcziQNIZiHrX60nEeoHjk7YBDoU6qgfI2z1enU15Lx54eVSUoG71mEuXanHeVpdjqD4aeN5_BCqw38TMa3AgAYrt0S2inNCPpLBXjVw/s400/DSC_0037.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5593194658965147794" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;">So I feel like most people know by now....but I'm sure some don't:<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:180%;">BOY!</span><br /><br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;">We had our ultrasound 2 weeks ago and baby boy appears nice and healthy, praise God! And I am measuring right on time at just about 22 weeks for our due date of August 14th. I am feeling good now, the nausea finally passed around 17 weeks and my energy (though it isn't close to what I had in my 2nd trimester w/ Miya) has improved much form the 1st trimester. I blame the lesser energy on my busy toddler :) Miya is very excited about her baby "bwotha" and we have already decided on a name: Micah James Lewis.<br /><br />We picked Micah for the meaning: "who resembles God", and James after James in the bible (Jesus' brother). The book of James has been extremely influential in my life since finding out we are expecting this baby, so we knew we wanted to have it in there. <br /><br />We are getting more excited as we anticipate welcoming sweet Micah into our family.<br /></div></div>Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-46221719578372232742011-03-14T15:04:00.003-04:002011-03-14T15:38:54.858-04:00Dear Miya...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjswte4E-DXtyqD3gMXqRZlSQAbQDU-7GePouG7wyMt7tWkxWGkAVDCZ3paLLmhskI2_oZqfXdrgyvv0RHnQpvXi2O0G2Cr-lG_qi-bXHi56aHmyihnJjXimUu_TyGkFu412JhHBw/s1600/DSC_0054.JPG"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjswte4E-DXtyqD3gMXqRZlSQAbQDU-7GePouG7wyMt7tWkxWGkAVDCZ3paLLmhskI2_oZqfXdrgyvv0RHnQpvXi2O0G2Cr-lG_qi-bXHi56aHmyihnJjXimUu_TyGkFu412JhHBw/s400/DSC_0054.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5584014860525438482" border="0" /></a>Dearest Miya,<br /><br />I have so poorly captured this past year, and I will never be able to catch up now, but I have to pause now to remember you just as you are right now, since I can't hit pause (though I wish I could often) I don't want to forget these fun memories!<br /><br />In a few short weeks you will be 2, and I can barely stand how quickly you are growing. In about 22 weeks you will become a big sister, and I know you will be a wonderful big sister! You already show so much interest in "the baby" as you talk to and kiss my belly on a daily basis. You call "it" baby boy and we will find out soon if you are right! I can't help but think that you might get along better with a little brother than a sister, we will see! <br /><br />You are talking up a storm, and you keep daddy and I in stitches when you open your mouth! A few of your latest phrases are:<br />"what dats?" you are so curious and want to know what everything is!<br />"what you doing mommy" another frequently asked question, you always want to know what I am up to :) Sometimes you will ask 20 times in a row<br />You have begun to ask me questions only to answer with the same thing you think I am going to say. Mommy has discovered that she needs to come up with some new responses to your questions: "mommy yet's go outside? nope we're done. Watch leapfrog? nope we're done. Play choo choo train? nope we're done." <br />"mommy tiss!" you sometimes mix up your "K" sounds with t's so when you mean to ask for a kiss you tend to say tiss instead.<br /><br />You are doing well with going on the potty. You generally go poo poo on the potty every day, Mommy just needs to get more consistent about putting you on for pee pee too. But you are so good about telling me when you need to go!<br /><br />You have been so snuggly with me lately, I think you might be able to sense a big change coming. But I don't mind one bit. One thing I have learned this past year is time flies way too fast, and I know it won't be long before you will no longer want snuggles and won't even fit in my lap because my belly will be too big. So I am soaking it all in. Daddy thinks I am crazy, but occasionally you will wake up crying late at night, normally we would let you fuss for a few minutes and you would go right back to sleep, but now I jump right up and run in to rock you for a few minutes. I just can't miss a moment with you, I know you won't be my littlest for long and I can't fathom missing any chances I have to spend those quiet moments with you. <br /><br />Spring is coming and you love playing outside! Every chance you get you want to go out for walks, and the whole time you point out anything and everything. Birds! Airplanes! Trees! Flowers! People! I love your excitement over every little thing, it's absolutely contagious.<br /><br />You looove to sing, many times we catch you sitting on the floor playing while you sing "amazing grace" or "holy God" or "twinkle twinkle" and our favorite "God bless america" you amaze us with your ability to remember the lyrics to songs and we love to hear your joyful heart as you sing. <br /><br />You have also become quite mischievous these days. You have discovered how to remove your clothes and diaper during naps or bedtime, several times mommy has come in to find you completely naked, and thankfully we can solve it at nighttime by putting your pj's on backwards. Still trying to figure out a naptime solution. You also have discovered a new fun trick: climbing out of your crib! I never thought I would see the day, but boy was I surprised when I heard that first boom from your room during naptime. I came running up to find you, little "houdini" out of her crib and apparently unscathed. We have now figured out that we can turn you crib around so the shorter side is against the wall, and you haven't quite figured out how to climb out from the side....and I am hoping that you don't figure it out either :)<br /><br />You are still a good eater, but starting to get more picky. You love fruit, and especially Boobooberries (blueberries) as you refer to them. You ask for them every single meal, and if I say they are all gone you want proof! In fact if I tell you anything is all gone you demand to "see all gone" meaning you want to see the empty container. Silly girl. You also still love beans and rice, but aren't a huge fan of meat. You will eat meant however if we give you something to "dip" it in. Typical toddler. <br /><br />I have been praying for a tender heart for you lately, praying that God would give me wisdom in how to show you grace. I have seen God working in many ways. We have been trying to teach you to pray and it has many times melted my heart to hear you say "jesus pwease help" on your own initiative. Baby steps, but thankful to see God at work nonetheless. <br /><br />I love you sweet girl, being your Mommy has been one of the greatest joys of my life. I can't wait to see what the year ahead holds, and all that God has in store. <br /><br />Love,<br />MommyLaurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-52741172213019398832011-02-16T08:43:00.003-05:002011-02-16T13:24:07.539-05:00Let's talk food...I'm thrilled to be able to talk (let alone think) about food again without getting sick. I have finally gotten into a groove again with dinners, but I have been wanting to do more baking than anything, which has kept my family very happy :)<br /><br />I have a load of recipes to share that have been on our favorite list lately. Here goes:<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Vegetarian:</span> I am beginning to think we breed vegetarian babies. This pregnancy, what are the first things I want once I am feeling well enough to stomach normal food? Beans and lentils. Strange. And not only that, but after 4 vegetarian meals last week I watched miya scarfing down all variety of beans and lentils...and learned that this child LOVES beans. She will turn her nose at beef and chicken, but give her beans and she will devour them. And hey it's cheap and good for you, so we'll roll with it.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.underthehighchair.com/2010/05/meatless-monday-coconut-rice-beans-but.html"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Coconut Rice & Beans</span></a><br /><br />1 cup sweetened flaked coconut (I used unsweetened b/c I had it on hand)<br />1 cup chicken broth<br />3/4 cup coconut milk<br />1/4 teaspoon salt<br />1/4 teaspoon pepper<br />3 tablespoons butter, divided<br />1 1/4 cups uncooked basmati rice (I used brown basmati)<br />1 small onion, chopped<br />1 (15-oz.) can black beans, drained and rinsed (I used dried beans that I soaked and cooked)<br />1 can black eyed beans, drained and rinsed<br />1 teaspoons chili powder<br />1 teaspoon ground cumin<br />1 red pepper, chopped (optional)<br />1 lime<br />2 green onions, thinly sliced<br />1/2 cup chopped fresh cilantro<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Toppings:</span> lime wedges, diced mango, sour cream, cilantro, green onion. (the mango I had wasn't ripe, so I just sliced up some peeled naval orange over top, it was delish)<br /><br />Preparation<br />1. Preheat oven to 350°. Bake coconut in a single layer on a baking sheet 8 to 10 minutes or until toasted. Cool.<br />2. Bring broth, coconut milk, salt & pepper, 2 Tbsp. butter, and 1 cup water to a boil in a 2-qt. saucepan. Stir in rice. Cover, reduce heat to low, and cook 15 to 20 minutes or until rice is tender and water is absorbed.<br /><br />A few more:<br /><a href="http://www.marthastewart.com/recipe/bean-burritos">Martha's Bean Burritos</a><br />Seriously the best bean burritos ever. They freeze amazingly, in fact we have a big batch in the freezer that we grab from for lunches and dinners, they reheat so well.<br /><br /><a href="http://find.myrecipes.com/recipes/recipefinder.dyn?action=displayRecipe&recipe_id=10000000671406">Black Bean Soup</a><br />LOVE this so much. It's super easy, and you can used dried beans too, but I usually end up using canned ones that I just rinse to get rid of extra sodium. Also I have found it's pertinent to use a fresh salsa for this (you know the kind you can find in the deli or at the refrigerated section at Trader Joes?) It turns out SO much better with fresh salsa. We serve it with sour cream and sometimes a dab of homemade guacamole on top. Actually having leftovers of this today for lunch. It's yummy with quesadillas to dip or tortilla chips.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.101cookbooks.com/archives/coconut-red-lentil-soup-recipe.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+101Cookbooks+%28101+Cookbooks%29&utm_content=Google+Reader">Coconut red lentil soup</a><br />Got this one from my SIL and it was so yummy, and make great leftovers too.<br /><br />Ok we do have some meat dishes we like too :)<br /><br />Just made this <a href="http://thepioneerwoman.com/tasty-kitchen/recipes/main-courses/beef-pepperoncini/">Beef Pepperoncini</a> last night with some of the grassfed cow that has been hanging out in the freezer, it was really good and really easy. We served it on some warmed focaccia rolls with a little mayo and some melted muenster cheese.<br /><br />And for sweet goodies, that have been rocking my pregnant world lately:<br /><a href="http://www.joythebaker.com/blog/2011/02/peanut-butter-banana-bread/#more-4577"><br />Peanut Butter Banana Bread</a><br />Need I say more? I mean this was so good, the best banana bread I have ever had. VERY moist and the peanut butter flavor is soooo good. I used 3 ripe bananas and that seemed to be perfect. I didn't use the flax because I didn't have it on hand, and I didn't use the peanuts either for the same reason.<br /><br /><a href="http://picky-palate.com/2008/03/11/new-chocolate-chip-cookies-on-block/">Coconut oil Choc. Chip Cookies</a><br />Ok so I changed the title (the blog calls them "Bye Bye Butter Cookies" and I love butter too much to ever say goodbye) but I didn't have any on hand so I thought I would give this a shot....and SERIOUSLY best cookies ever. I cooked them the least amount stated on the recipe and they stayed really really moist and chewy and fluffed up just like she described in the recipe. We loved them and devoured them in record timing. The only adaption I made was I used whole wheat pastry flour. They were truly the perfect cookie, I think I will go make some more right now......<br /><br />And one that I would like to try soon:<br /><br /><a href="http://crockpot365.blogspot.com/2011/02/apple-coffee-cake-made-in-slow-cooker.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+AYearOfCrockPotting+%28A+Year+of+Slow+Cooking%29">Apple Coffee Cake in the crockpot</a><br />This just sounds good, and has so little sugar. I haven't tried any dessert baking in the crockpot but figure it's worth a try! I don't have the smaller slow cooker so I would probably try putting a bread pan in my larger slow cooker as she describes. Anybody tried this?<br /><br />And that is what's on my mind lately :)Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-805201583951078482011-02-14T07:41:00.004-05:002011-02-14T21:15:56.785-05:00Many are the plans...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhp1ZQ44Cv_Rb2-pIf6VJklVrOri80rugbXDeDOqB7RSMDW_rPRd31DLwnhAQKpf8y3XJgw5hYH76gFqxiFTHyXAFFdupDaj7kxfrmMORlKPw7cqA-sS6qXZZoqO6zQzPoUuM-Exg/s1600/blueprint"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 225px; height: 225px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhp1ZQ44Cv_Rb2-pIf6VJklVrOri80rugbXDeDOqB7RSMDW_rPRd31DLwnhAQKpf8y3XJgw5hYH76gFqxiFTHyXAFFdupDaj7kxfrmMORlKPw7cqA-sS6qXZZoqO6zQzPoUuM-Exg/s400/blueprint" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5573526407251494738" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;"> <br />Many are the plans in the mind of a man,<br /> but it is the purpose of the LORD that will stand.<br />(Proverbs 19:21 <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">ESV</span>)<br /></div><br />This passage has been one that has both been encouraging and humbling in the past few months. There is something humbling about knowing we can plan and plan with the best of intentions, but ultimately God is <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">sovereignly</span> reigning over our lives and circumstances. I have had much proof of this lately.<br /><br />First I have to refer you back to <a href="http://lew-and-laura.blogspot.com/2010/08/wait.html">this post on waiting</a>, specifically this portion:<br /><br /><blockquote style="font-style: italic;">I feel like we are currently in the "school" of waiting. Waiting for a new job for Lew, waiting to figure out where we are going to live...eventually :)...waiting to decide if we should buy or rent a home...waiting on more children...<br /><br />I think we are always "waiting" for something. But certain seasons the waiting seems more daunting and wearisome. But in each season I am SO aware of how God's grace carries me through the waiting and how much I am learning in the process. It's so easy to be looking forward to the outcome...the thing we are waiting for. But really it's the process that bears the sweetest fruit.</blockquote><br /><br />To follow that let me give you a little time line from the last year to sum up the amazing ways we have seen God provide, in many ways God's provision came at a time that was a complete surprise to us, times when we weren't sure what He was doing, and when we "thought" we knew what direction we were heading in. Little did we know God was taking us in a completely different direction.<br /><br />January 2010: After much prayer we move out of our apartment and in with my parents with the goal to pay off debt and possibly save for a home. Lew is also continuing to aggressively search for a new job at this time as his current one has no potential for professional growth.<br /><br /><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">Febuary</span> 2010: God plants a seed in our hearts that I should possibly pursue going back to work in a hospital setting where the pay is better and where I can work nights to allow me to still be home with <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">Miya</span> during the days. This was a very VERY scary idea for me. It required a lot of faith and prayer for me to feel ready to move forward with this, mainly because I felt so out of the loop since having <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">Miya</span> and wasn't sure how I would juggle home life and work again. But after a chat with my sister in law Rachel who is also a nurse she encouraged me to "not fear or shrink back from hard things." In other words just because things are hard, doesn't mean we are not called to face them. That was all I needed to hear, she was right and I moved forward by applying to the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">PICU</span> at Shady Grove Hospital. After getting called in to meet with the nurse recruiter I was told the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6">PICU</span> had no positions, but that I could still chat with the nurse manager that day in case something opened up. After meeting with the nurse manager she offered me a job on the spot. And not just any job but the exact position I wanted, which would allow me to work just one 12 hour night shift a week. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Clearly</span> God's provision....<br /><br />March 2010: <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7">Miya</span> turned one year, and I start working in the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8">PICU</span>. It was a big adjustment, but after this first month I began to see what a blessing it was. I loved the nurses I was working with and God was pouring out much grace for the transition. Living with my parents was a huge blessing during this transition because we had lots of help and extra hands!<br /><br />April-July We spent this time just working and aggressively paying off debt. <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9">Miya</span> was able to thoroughly enjoy by parents big backyard and I was able to plant my first vegetable/herb garden. We also were able to enjoy a great summer trip to Indiana as well as a beach trip to <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10">OC</span> with my family.<br /><br />End of July 2010: Lew and I start talking about a timetable for trying for another baby. We both knew we didn't want a huge gap between our kids, and because we had no clarity yet on whether we would buy or rent, we decided to not prevent pregnancy and see what God did....<br /><br />August: Lew is still aggressively pursuing work at this point, still no major leads. BUT we were able to pay off Lew's car at this point which was resulted in much rejoicing!<br /><br />September-October: By the end of October not yet pregnant and feeling ready to begin to pursue options for where to live, we decided to get back in touch with our realtor and broker to see what would be a good option for us at this point. We also decided to hold off on trying for kids until we had more clarity about whether we would buy or rent.<br /><br />November: we meet with our realtor and broker and are approved for a loan! We begin our search with the caution that it may be difficult to find something we really like right away in our price range and in less than 2 weeks (I kid you not) found a home and had an offer down. We had our home inspection and Lew and I were discussing if this was the home we really wanted to buy. There was more cosmetic work to be done than we had realized, but otherwise the home was in great shape.... we decided to take a night to pray on it and talk more about it. That night we talk and really have faith for it. The next morning I awoke with a jolt and for some reason had this inkling of suspicion that I might be pregnant. Call it a woman's intuition :) Well a pregnancy test immediately confirmed that suspicion. I cried as I told Lew not because I was sad, but just shocked! But we had a BIG decision to make. Do we move forward with this home? Some of you may remember that I got pregnant with <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11">Miya</span> when we were pursuing buying a home last time (almost 3 years ago) so there is something about home buying that brings babies for our family! Either way we decided we had faith to move forward and confirmed our offer on the home. 4 days later I began to miscarry. There was a lot of confusion in my heart as I battled with trying to understand what God was doing...but there was also peace. I just knew God was in control and had a lot of faith as we moved forward with buying our home.<br /><br />December 2010:<br />We excitedly settle on our house December 7<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12">th</span>. All went without a hitch and we were very excited to move in. I had begun to feel extremely exhausted but just chalked it up to packing and working etc... I mentioned to Lew how tired I was and jokingly mentioned the possibility of being pregnant again. He laughed and responded: " what are the chances of that!?" I decided to find out by taking a pregnancy test. And it appears the chances are good enough because the test came back positive...again! It was like <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13">deja</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14">vu</span>. I couldn't believe it...neither of us could. And amazingly I had forgotten to cancel the doctors appointment that I had made the month earlier so I was able to go in early on to see how things were going...we got a good report and days later moved into our home. Around the same time Lew saw a job that he was very interested in on Dice.com, but being so busy caring for a sick pregnant wife and chasing a wild toddler AND helping unpack and settle just didn't have time to apply. We spent our first Christmas in our new home.<br /><br />January 2011: My sickness hit an ultimate high this month. This pregnancy has definitely been more difficult than my last but I think moving, caring for a busy toddler, and growing a baby is quite the load to carry :) This month Lew gets an email from a recruiter saying they saw his resume on dice.com and thought he was a perfect fit for the job. As soon as Lew looked at the job description he realized it was the exact job and company he had seen and wanted to apply for in January! God had brought the job to him. Lew interviewed and had a job offer almost a week later, he accepted.<br /><br />It's been amazing to see how God provided for us. Granted in praying for all these major things we didn't expect God to give them to us in a short 2 month span, but I just can't help but laugh when I think about how easy it is for me to think I have every thing under control, all my plans laid out...then it's like the control is gone, the plans shaken...and boy am I glad. God's plans have always been better than ours, and I'm thankful he doesn't let us have it our way, or I wouldn't have this wonderful blessing growing in my belly.<br /><br />I am just over 14 weeks and just coming out from under this sickness. Keeping food down and more thankful for health and energy than I ever have been. My due date is August 14<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_15">th</span> and if this little one cooperates we may find out the gender March 6<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_16">th</span>. Well there is my book... I never have been good at keeping things brief :)Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-79342069389401393452010-12-07T19:23:00.002-05:002010-12-07T19:37:43.869-05:00signed.sealed.delivered<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/5242699052/" title="DSC_0004.JPG by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5081/5242699052_30a5da62fe_z.jpg" alt="DSC_0004.JPG" height="428" width="640" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/5242707030/" title="DSC_0012.JPG by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5243/5242707030_bea42d6fb2_z.jpg" alt="DSC_0012.JPG" height="611" width="640" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/5242699202/" title="DSC_0008.JPG by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5201/5242699202_3794129d8a_z.jpg" alt="DSC_0008.JPG" height="428" width="640" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;">(Miya showing off her "new housh" as she likes to say :)<br /></div><br /><br />We are officially homeowners! It feels pretty surreal, settlement went as smooth as can be (even after being totally sleep deprived after getting called into work at 2am...gotta love being on call the night before closing :))<br /><br />I feel a little overwhelmed with the amount of work to be done this week with painting, packing, and moving...but as Lew says: one day at a time.<br /><br />God has been so faithful! Can't wait to move in this week!Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-53430321885596080962010-12-06T11:28:00.003-05:002010-12-06T15:14:22.399-05:00Themes.I am such a "themes" person. The wheels have been turning as I have been trying to think of what theme Miya's new room should be, and how I want to incorporate her nursery theme which was an aviary theme with birds and owls. So... I decided we are going to do a Nature theme, so we can still have our birds and owls but I also want to have other forms of nature/creation in there as well.<br /><br />I have many ideas on diy stuff I'd like to do...but that will have to wait until we finish packing and moving. But today I made this picture for Miya's room:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/5239111986/" title="DSC_0059.JPG by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5244/5239111986_b81982c824_z.jpg" alt="DSC_0059.JPG" height="428" width="640" /></a><br /><br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/5239111644/" title="DSC_0056.JPG by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5283/5239111644_2917d6ec50_z.jpg" alt="DSC_0056.JPG" height="428" width="640" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/5238514509/" title="DSC_0057.JPG by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5044/5238514509_267f51440f.jpg" alt="DSC_0057.JPG" height="334" width="500" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/5238514317/" title="DSC_0058.JPG by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5082/5238514317_9b6afdf1fd.jpg" alt="DSC_0058.JPG" height="334" width="500" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/5238513891/" title="DSC_0055.JPG by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5089/5238513891_ba2cd46666_z.jpg" alt="DSC_0055.JPG" height="428" width="640" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />I just need to find a square frame for it, I can't wait to hang it! I am planning to gather most of my inspiration from this <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/artandphilanthropy?ref=seller_info">etsy shop</a> All I used to make this was some cardstock and decorative paper I had on hand and it took about 20 minutes!<br /><br />Sooo many cute ideas! And the cutest thing about this song is we have been singing it to her since she was born. Definitely a favorite...and now she loves "shunshine" and every morning insists I open up her blinds first thing and sing the "shunshine" song :)Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-18900825637607790182010-11-30T11:55:00.002-05:002010-11-30T12:08:43.033-05:00Talk talk talk.That is what Miya does these days. She talks and talks and talks some more. We call her a parrot because she literally repeats us on most things. Here is a few of my recent favorites:<br /><br />Indy-nana: Her word for where Nana lives "Indiana". This one makes me smile :)<br /><br />Appa-shauce: Apple sauce. The girl loves it<br /><br />Yo-gabgabblagaba: yo gabba gabba, her favorite show. She thinks daddy is DJ lance. She really does. <br /><br />Ha-ya-yu-ya: Hallelujah<br /><br />HOTDOG: she says it crystal clear now. And she wants them for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and dessert.<br /><br />Outside-bug: Why she says this every time we talk about outside I will never know. But whenever we talk about going outside she yells "outside bug" over and over<br /><br />Fru-fruit: Grapefruit. One of her favorite fruits. But we have learned to limit her after we discovered what too many can do to her GI tract. Not fun.<br /><br />Dant-do: thank you. Love when she says this.<br /><br />No-dant-do: when she doesn't want something she says this. <br /><br />Yes-peas: Yes please. Love to hear this one too!<br /><br />Poopoo potty! Hear this one A LOT. Sometimes it's genuine...other times we just spend a 1/2 hour in the bathroom with no success.<br /><br /><br />But on that note....<br />Potty update: She is going in the potty regularly, we have good days in bad but she is definitely telling us when she needs to go, and there have been times she has held in when we are in the car etc.. It's definitely time consuming....but I have to say she is essentially training herself. She is definitely at the point where she hates going in her diaper, and she loves to get a treat. So it's a win-win. It will be interesting to see if this continues once we move, but we'll see!<br /><br />She is definitely growing up! Hard to believe she is only about 4 months away from turning 2.Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-12810926459451369532010-11-30T08:20:00.002-05:002010-11-30T08:28:13.235-05:00Forget not.Yesterday we drove back from visiting Lew's family in Indiana and came home to an email that said our final approval came through on our loan for the house. I am absolutely blown away by how smooth this process has been. God has provided for EVERY. SINGLE. STEP of the way. Literally. And I am truly in awe. In awe of how God has provided grace over this past year of being without a "home" of our own. The blessing my parents have been to share their home with us and our busy/noisy toddler (grin) and the blessing family and friends have been to encourage us and pray for us. And here we are, exactly a week away from our settlement date, and I am just so thankful. <br /><br />It was perfectly fitting that I read this in Deuteronomy 6 this morning:<br /><blockquote><br /> “And when the LORD your God brings you into the land that he swore to your fathers, to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob, to give you—with great and good cities that you did not build, and houses full of all good things that you did not fill, and cisterns that you did not dig, and vineyards and olive trees that you did not plant—and when you eat and are full, then take care lest you forget the LORD, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery.<br />(Deuteronomy 6:10-12 ESV)</blockquote><br />That is my prayer. "Lord don't let me forget that all of this is from YOUR hand. This is YOUR provision, a house that you built, and you will fill. Please don't let me forget your faithfulness and provision." God has surly been good, even in the waiting.Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-30740576951253043482010-11-01T07:46:00.003-04:002010-11-01T08:14:50.901-04:00.Unchanged.<div style="text-align: center;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdan_d03HRIZ5RXoZmHedf38kJNFXyOeGNCIOTbj0U36KWjiZQEw_N-bBIOqEKeEngtjY2bv6oYQN7fN7fQF3JcWo6h_Fm6ezE7TdnPGCc6A7YO9y5Ge76udUq8gf8PahyphenhyphenXhQChw/s1600/home"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 310px; height: 233px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdan_d03HRIZ5RXoZmHedf38kJNFXyOeGNCIOTbj0U36KWjiZQEw_N-bBIOqEKeEngtjY2bv6oYQN7fN7fQF3JcWo6h_Fm6ezE7TdnPGCc6A7YO9y5Ge76udUq8gf8PahyphenhyphenXhQChw/s400/home" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5534547177185790754" border="0" /></a><br />This past 2 weeks has been crazy to say the least. Exactly 2 weeks ago Lew and I were in a very different situation. We are still living with my parents, and at the time had little faith to buy a home as Lew still hasn't found a new job, and we weren't sure if we should commit to buying something without knowing where he would be working. But two weeks ago I really begin to think and wonder....do we trust God for a home? Do we trust that God can provide a place for us, in a way that we couldn't have seen coming. Do we believe God is wiser than us?<br /><br />At this point we are coming up on a year living with my parents. It has been year full of challenges as we aggressively pay off debt and mesh 6 adults and one toddler into one home. There have been many sweet times, but of course there are challenges too. Lew has been looking for a new job now on and off for 2 years. So, 2 weeks ago as I began to ask the above questions I also raised them to Lew. I think we can easily be more focused on what we don't have, and less aware of what God has already provided. It all the sudden hit us that we were missing the huge provision that God has already given us in Lew's current job. This has been a steady job and a secure job for our family, an answer to prayers almost 4 years ago. The company is doing well and this job has allowed a lot of flexibility for our family. It may not be exactly what Lew is looking for, but it's a job, and a gift. Not only that but God graciously provided a job for me, where I can work very little and still be a big means of support for our family, which has allowed me to keep my primary "job" in the home. Another huge means of provision from the Lord. Long story short 2 weeks ago God planted seeds of faith in our hearts, that we are to step forward, taking big leaps of faith, and trust Him for something big.<br /><br />So we prayed, and we lept. That same day I contacted our broker and realtor again and asked them if we could meet to discuss possible options for us. We met with the realtor that week who informed us that we need to be ready for the "long haul" not exactly what we wanted to hear. He said basically with our budget we probably could only find a short sale or foreclosure and that could mean months and months of waiting, and potentially disappointment. Not only that but he said be prepared for a home that could also need a lot of work. Not exactly what we wanted to hear. But we prayed and still had faith to move forward. Fast forward a week later, our realtor calls and says "I found something I think you guys will really love, I think we need to look at it tonight!" We scramble and along with Miya go look at this home. It's not only move in ready, but in the neighborhood we wanted, and the model we were hoping for. That night Lew and I look at our budget again...pray...and leap again. The next night we sign an offer. The next day we are under contract. Yes, all that in 2 weeks.<br /><br />It's unbelievable to see how God called us to leap in faith, and then literally at record speed he drops something into our laps that we didn't even imagine receiving, or know to ask for. Of course at any point God could take this away, we are awaiting an inspection and appraisal, but we are trusting God will work good regardless of the outcome. We are just praying that He will continue to give us clarity and direction as he has thus far. Our proposed settlement date is December 7th, and we probably won't move in ourselves until after Christmas.<br /><br />My title is probably confusing now as you hear me describe all these big changes in our lives right now. The bottom line that we are seeing in all this is God's unchanging nature. In the midst of all these twists and turns in our story, God has remained steady. This portion from Morning and Evening pretty much sums it up for me:<br /><br /><p class="passage" id="d1102am-p2"><i></i></p><blockquote><p class="passage" id="d1102am-p2"><i>“I am the Lord, I change not."</i></p><p class="passage" id="d1102am-p2"><i>Malachi 3:6<br /></i></p> <a name="d1102am-p2.1"></a><h3 class="scripPassage" id="d1102am-p2.2"><a class="scripRef" id="d1102am-p2.3" href="http://www.ccel.org/ccel/bible/asv.Mal.3.html#Mal.3.6" name="_Mal_3_6_0_0"></a></h3> <p class="normal" id="d1102am-p3">It is well for us that, amidst all the variableness of life, there is One whom change cannot affect; One whose heart can never alter, and on whose brow mutability can make no furrows. All things else have changed—all things are changing. The sun itself grows dim with age; the world is waxing old; the folding up of the worn-out vesture has commenced; the heavens and earth must soon pass away; they shall perish, they shall wax old as doth a garment; but there is One who only hath immortality, of whose years there is no end, and in whose person there is no change. The delight which the mariner feels, when, after having been tossed about for many a day, he steps again upon the solid shore, is the satisfaction of a Christian when, amidst all the changes of this troublous life, he rests the foot of his faith upon this truth—“<i>I am the Lord, I change not</i>.”</p> <p class="normal" id="d1102am-p4">The stability which the anchor gives the ship when it has at last obtained a hold-fast, is like that which the Christian’s hope affords him when it fixes itself upon this glorious truth. With God “is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.” Whatever his attributes were of old, they are now; his power, his wisdom, his justice, his truth, are alike unchanged. He has ever been the refuge of his people, their stronghold in the day of trouble, and he is their sure Helper still. He is unchanged in his love. He has loved his people with “an everlasting love”; he loves them now as much as ever he did, and when all earthly things shall have melted in the last conflagration, his love will still wear the dew of its youth. Precious is the assurance that he changes not! The wheel of providence revolves, but its axle is eternal love.</p> <table class="verse"><tbody><tr><td> <p class="t1">“Death and change are busy ever,</p> <p class="t1">Man decays, and ages move;</p> <p class="t1">But his mercy waneth never;</p> <p class="t1">God is wisdom, God is love.”</p></td></tr></tbody></table></blockquote><table class="verse"><tbody><tr><td><p class="t1"></p><br /></td></tr></tbody></table><br /></div><img src="file:///Users/lauralew/Library/Caches/TemporaryItems/moz-screenshot.png" alt="" /><img src="file:///Users/lauralew/Library/Caches/TemporaryItems/moz-screenshot-1.png" alt="" /><img src="file:///Users/lauralew/Library/Caches/TemporaryItems/moz-screenshot-2.png" alt="" /><img src="file:///Users/lauralew/Library/Caches/TemporaryItems/moz-screenshot-3.png" alt="" />Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-16065278163576664132010-08-30T09:31:00.003-04:002010-08-30T09:42:47.529-04:00Potty update 2<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-style: italic;">**Warning! For those not interested in a potty update, you may not want to read ahead. This post contains words like poo poo and poopy more than once. :) **</span><br /><br />So, for those who are just dying to know how our "potty" venture is going ;) For the record we haven't officially started potty training yet, but because Miya seems to go number 2 at the same time every day I thought why not just put her on the potty and see what happens. I had tried that around 15 months and she definitely didn't seem ready. <br /><br />We have the little seat you sit on the top of the regular toilet. I thought I'd give it another shot yesterday. Much to our surprise she actually went! She has also been telling me "poo poo" before she goes which definitely helps. <br /><br />This morning I tried again after breakfast (which seems to be "the time") and after a minute or 2 she started to say "all done! down down!" but she hadn't gone yet. I kept trying to distract her with books and then finally I remembered yesterday she had only wanted her "peek-a-boo" book. So I quickly ran to get it, and as soon as I gave it to her she went. I told Lew it looks like we will have to keep this one near the potty as her reading material :) Amazing how much of a creature of habit she is. <br /><br />Then when she was done I got her down and stood her up and soon after noticed a puddle at her feet, looks I need to keep her on for another minute or 2. But I told Lew I will gladly clean up pee pee off of the floor over changing a poopy diaper :)<br /><br />Not sure if we will really begin to more aggressively potty train yet, but for now I am enjoying one less poopy diaper change a day. We'll see if she continues to seem interested. <br /><br />Still can't get over how big she is getting. Kind of bitter sweet for sure.<br /></div>Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-36999986585366687922010-08-30T07:54:00.002-04:002010-08-30T08:23:46.736-04:00.Wait.<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/4940978641/" title="DSC_0850 by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4139/4940978641_142dcf4d34_z.jpg" alt="DSC_0850" width="640" height="428" /></a><br /></div><br />I feel like we are currently in the "school" of waiting. Waiting for a new job for Lew, waiting to figure out where we are going to live...eventually :)...waiting to decide if we should buy or rent a home...waiting on more children...<br /><br />I think we are always "waiting" for something. But certain seasons the waiting seems more daunting and wearisome. But in each season I am SO aware of how God's grace carries me through the waiting and how much I am learning in the process. It's so easy to be looking forward to the outcome...the thing we are waiting for. But really it's the process that bears the sweetest fruit. These 2 things encouraged me so much this morning as we continue to wait:<br /><notag class="body"></notag><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><notag class="body"><notag class="body"><em><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Wait</span></span> on the Lord. -</em></notag></notag><notag class="body">Psalm 27:14</notag></div><notag class="body"><em> </em></notag> <p> </p><blockquote><notag size="3">It may seem an easy thing to wait, but it is one of the postures which a Christian soldier learns not without years of teaching. Marching and quick-marching are much easier to God's warriors than standing still. There are hours of perplexity when the most willing spirit, anxiously desirous to serve the Lord, knows not what part to take. Then what shall it do? Vex itself by despair? Fly back in cowardice, turn to the right hand in fear, or rush forward in presumption? No, but simply wait. Wait in prayer, however. Call upon God, and spread the case before Him; tell Him your difficulty, and plead His promise of aid. In dilemmas between one duty and another, it is sweet to be humble as a child, and wait with simplicity of soul upon the Lord. It is sure to be well with us when we feel and know our own folly, and are heartily willing to be guided by the will of God. But wait in faith. Express your unstaggering confidence in Him; for unfaithful, untrusting waiting, is but an insult to the Lord. <span style="font-weight: bold;">Believe that if He keep you tarrying even till midnight, yet He will come at the right time; the vision shall come and shall not tarry.</span> Wait in quiet patience, not rebelling because you are under the affliction, but blessing your God for it. Never murmur against the second cause, as the children of Israel did against Moses; never wish you could go back to the world again, but accept the case as it is, and put it as it stands, simply and with your whole heart, without any self-will, into the hand of your covenant God, saying, "Now, Lord, not my will, but Thine be done. I know not what to do; I am brought to extremities, but I will wait until Thou shalt cleave the floods, or drive back my foes. I will wait, if Thou keep me many a day, for my heart is fixed upon Thee alone, O God, and my spirit waiteth for Thee in the full conviction that Thou wilt yet be my joy and my salvation, my refuge and my strong tower."<br /><br /><br />And one more from a <a href="http://castroclan.blogspot.com/">friends</a> blog<br /><br /></notag>“…waiting is living through those moments when you do not understand what God is doing and you have no power to change your circumstances for the better…So much of our daily comfort comes from the fact that we are able to make sense of our circumstances… Waiting is hard for us because we tie our hearts to other glories. We so often live for the glory of human acceptance, of personal achievement, of power and position, of possessions and places, and of comfort and pleasure. So when God’s glory requires that these things be withheld from us – things we look to for identity, meaning, and purpose – we find waiting a grueling, burdensome experience. Waiting means surrendering your glory. Waiting means submitting to His glory. Waiting means understanding that you were given life and breath for the glory of another. Waiting gives you opportunity to forsake the delusion of you own glory and rest in the God of awesome glory. Only when you do that will you find what you seek, and what you were meant to have: lasting identity, meaning and purpose, and peace in Christ…”<br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;"><br /><br /></div> </blockquote>Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-89202898657415382832010-08-29T09:33:00.001-04:002010-08-29T09:35:26.158-04:00Big first...Well folks...today is a momentous occasion! Yes it is the day of my birth, but not only that! Miya at 17 months did her first "number 2" on the potty. We cheered and celebrated and she just looked at us like we were crazy. Not sure she gets why we were so excited, but it's a start! <br /><br />Our little girl is growing up :)Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-90257252238242383632010-08-22T16:08:00.003-04:002010-08-22T16:18:12.286-04:00Ministry of Motherhood<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/4917513574/" title="DSC_0805 by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4094/4917513574_589bab8078_z.jpg" alt="DSC_0805" height="428" width="640" /></a><br /><br /><br />My prayer as a Mommy...<br /><br />"Choosing to be a servant-mother means willingly giving up myself, my expectations, and my time to the task of mothering; and choosing to believe that doing so is the best use of my time at the moment. It means that, by faith, I have already made a decision to make myself available in the routine tasks and myriad of interruptions of my daily life because I believe it is God's will for me to serve my family through them."<br /><br />Sally Clarkson<br />The Ministry of MotherhoodLaurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27263100.post-10496548808508126382010-08-17T14:52:00.006-04:002010-08-18T11:03:48.957-04:00Growing...<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/4903990695/" title="DSC_0152 by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4093/4903990695_60cb38953a_z.jpg" alt="DSC_0152" height="428" width="640" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/4903990465/" title="DSC_0148 by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4121/4903990465_93be0306d4_z.jpg" alt="DSC_0148" height="428" width="640" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/4904580200/" title="DSC_0145 by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4115/4904580200_4249879061_b.jpg" alt="DSC_0145" height="1024" width="685" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/4904579942/" title="DSC_0126 by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4123/4904579942_ff679c852d_b.jpg" alt="DSC_0126" height="1024" width="685" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/4902559828/" title="DSC_0698 by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4078/4902559828_316a1b1ba8_z.jpg" width="640" height="428" alt="DSC_0698" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/4901975565/" title="DSC_0725 by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4136/4901975565_149feb8b4e_z.jpg" width="640" height="428" alt="DSC_0725" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/4901975977/" title="DSC_0783 by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4136/4901975977_27d91bf4c0_z.jpg" width="640" height="428" alt="DSC_0783" /></a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/10315760@N08/4901976399/" title="DSC_0790 by laura-lew, on Flickr"><img src="http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4122/4901976399_0746df310b_z.jpg" width="640" height="428" alt="DSC_0790" /></a><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">{some pictures from our recent beach trip}</span></span><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgirEtfhdXbaPtYaXwX0EBTDBS7iglw5DcNEUri0NPxkp0nmpSok0X4uFG8EHA5fgJRaN6fhkES7rLV4C5yDDo2Teb2BftGiaNdCDRrRiwuPHQzSwX8YQpt1rY3N4FHQi07GgvlOg/s1600/DSC_0510.JPG"><br /></a><br />Life is busy (what's new!) but Miya is growing and changing at such a rapid rate, I can't help but pause and make a few notes. I realize how quickly I forget to notice all the fun little things our girly is learning. She is almost 17months old and I can't help but ask the cliche question "where did the time go!?"<br /><br />A few fun "miya-isms"<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shishy</span> (still her fav snack)<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Moooooowa (</span>looooong O with a very high pitch squeak and a slightly British twang) = more<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Hi Momma, hi!</span> She likes to start with hi and end with hi (same for bye bye)<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Awww bebe</span>: I must say this and not realize it, but she says with little babies and dogs alike :)<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">I-lu-youuuuu:</span> She points to her eyes, then her heart, then at the other person (usually the dogs!)<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">ah-dun</span>= all done. She def tells us when she doesn't like something or when she has had enough<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">no no no noooooo:</span> usually she says it to herself after she has done something naughty<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">hoisy </span>(usually followed by a nay nay): horses seem to be one of her favorite animals currently<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Roooooar:</span> most animals if you ask what sound they make she will reply with a roar. Close enough I suppose :)<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shea</span>=hair. She has a fascination for those teeny curls on her head<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Owe-side</span>=outside (your fav place to be)<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Shoose</span>=shoes (still your fav accessory)<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Mwah!</span>= her sound for kisses<br /><br /><br />Other fun things<br /><br />You wave with the cutest little floppy wrist ever.<br /><br />You love to say hi and bye bye to inanimate objects, and you do so with such enthusiasm (this includes saying bye bye to your crib when you wake up in the morning or from naps)<br /><br />You love to hug and kiss all babies and all children for that matter. Have had a few awkward moments in public when you run up to kids you don't know and try to kiss them...on the lips!<br /><br />You still amaze me with your sleep habits, sometimes 13 hours at night and then a 2-4 hour nap during the day. I am now convinced no sibling of yours will ever be able to spoil us as you have.<br /><br />You love people and love being out and about where you can people watch. you love to wave to random strangers and get their attention, but when they try to approach you all the sudden you are overcome with shyness :)<br /><br />You continue with your growling to sleep and when waking up. We know you are getting sleepy when you start growling, and know your waking up the same way.<br /><br />You like to "hug" by bowing your head and nestling up to someone (or something) :) You usually also include a few "awww bebe" or "awwww papa" with your hugs. It melts my heart.<br /><br />You have become very fascinated with "baybees" and tend to think any child your size or smaller is a baby...even though they almost always are older than you!<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">A family update</span><br />Things are going well. We are still living with my parents and overwhelmed with thankfulness to them for bearing with us and allowing us to really tackle debt and savings. We still aren't clear on what the best next step is (renting -vs- buying) but trusting God has a good plan. Lew continues to look for work and I am currently working nights at Shady Grove Hospital and loving it. God has continued to provide in amazing ways and we are truly blown away. More than anything I have learned to enjoy the simple things. Yes, I miss having my "own" home, and I miss all the joys that come with that, but I have learned that home is what you make it. It's more than a physical space to call "yours". It's been such a joy living with my parents, that's 4 generations under one roof! Miya loves getting to see her grand grandma, aunt "roo roo", Meema, and pop pop on a daily basis. And honestly I think it's going to be hard to transition once we move out because she is so used to being surrounded by family. But for now we are enjoying where God has us, seeking to enjoy His many gifts and not be anxious about where we will be 6months to a year from now. God has <span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;">always</span> been faithful!Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09347453361020718321noreply@blogger.com0