A quick observations about conflict. Conflict is pretty much rooted in two things.
1)We are both sinners.
2)Poor communication because I expect Laura to be a mind reader.
Honestly, I was hoping that when we got engaged, I could give Laura a secret decoder ring that would take thoughts from my head and put them into her head to alleviate those communication problems. Unfortunately there aren't any decoder rings like that. Even if there were, we'd both still be sinning constantly. Thankfully there's grace and God has a plan to sanctify us and conform us to His image until we are in Heaven. Plus the ring I gave Laura is better then any mind decoder ring that could be invented anyway.